Just in time for the holiday season a reminder: Gifts aren’t for us. They are for the recipient. Sounds basic, ...

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Letters to Juliet, 2010 filmLetters to Juliet, 2010 film
Big picture? This movie is a romantic fantasy with some very unhelpful messages. That being said, I thoroughly enjoyed ...
Looking For a Strong ManLooking For a Strong Man
In order to avoid making BIG, giant, gargantuan, humongous generalizations here, I will emphasize that I am only talking about ...
Beware “Good Potential”Beware “Good Potential”
Good potential is not enough. Date who they are at this point in time, not who they could be in ...
Valentine’s DayValentine’s Day
“Are you sure you don’t want to go out?” My husband is the most sensitive, kind and considerate man I ...
Quit PretendingQuit Pretending
Pretending for the sake of a relationship or to attract a partner is a bad, bad idea. It disrespects yourself ...
Always Be My Maybe, 2019 filmAlways Be My Maybe, 2019 film
Let me just start by saying that I usually enjoy covers of songs, but this version of “Young Americans” in ...
Prepare for DisappointmentPrepare for Disappointment
There will be disappointment with dating, it is just part of the deal. Even when you do everything right. I ...
Resist!Resist!
A Desperado asks: How does American culture encourage desperately dating and how do we resist? American culture definitely pushes coupledom. ...
Do Not Censor Your ListDo Not Censor Your List
A desperado writes: “I started making my list of desired traits in a potential partner and I feel like I ...